Amanda Ileana Hernandez is married to Carlos Hernandez, one of two men in prison for the 2024 murder of Michigan jeweler Hussein Murray.
Squirrel Spotting: Be Like The Boss
Peter Smith shares what he learned about great leaders from reading the autobiography of a legendary Boss, Bruce Springsteen.

I recently read Bruce Springsteen’s very good book “Born To Run.” It’s almost sacrilegious to say it, but I’ve never been a huge fan of his music, being more of an Elvis, Sinatra and Beatles guy. That said, I’ve always been drawn to him as someone who exudes real passion, authenticity and a work ethic to die for.
His autobiography is a fascinating and worthwhile read, and it did nothing to dispel the attributes that I already had ascribed to The Boss.
It’s probably not news to his legions of fans, but it became patently obvious to me in reading his book that Springsteen, despite never having a “real job” in his life, is clearly not only a working man’s rocker and poet, but a great leader too. Far from locking himself behind high gates in Memphis or Palm Springs, Bruce seems to be somehow infinitely more accessible than other storied musicians and celebrities.
I loved a story I heard a year or two ago about Bruce walking through Boston’s Public Gardens.
He happened upon a busker and he asked if he could borrow his guitar for a bit. After playing a few tunes, he apologized for not having any cash on him (think about the gift he had already given that busker!) and went on his way. A short while later, Springsteen returned with some cash and tipped the busker.
As I was reading Bruce’s book, I happened upon the following passage and, if you’ll forgive the pun, it really struck a chord with me.
He wrote: “I’ve always believed the E Street Band’s continued existence--and it’s now been 40-plus years since its inception--is partially due to the fact that there was little to no role confusion amongst its members. Everyone knew their job, their boundaries, their blessings and limitations. My bandmates were not always happy with the decisions I made and may have been angered by some of them, but nobody debated my right to make them. Clarity ruled and allowed us to forge a bond based on the principle that we worked together, but it was my band.”
Some people may read that and see a self-absorbed egomaniac telling everyone that the ball is his and they can find another game if they don’t like it. I read it and loved every typed word. I thought that it was a brilliant reflection on why Bruce Springsteen
That one paragraph sums up so brilliantly why some leaders are successful and why so many are not.
Whether a company finds itself riding the crest of a wave or knee-deep in horse manure, what is always required from the leader is absolute clarity and conviction of purpose. It is not his or her job to tell tall tales or make excuses (anyone paying attention at United Airlines?) but to chart a clear course and to communicate that direction, unambiguously, throughout the organization. Clarity and consistency of message ought to be the minimum standard for a leader and, yet, it is so often lacking.
In the HBR book “On Managing People,” Daniel Goleman wrote: “Our research indicates that of the six leadership styles, the authoritative one is the most effective, driving up every aspect of climate. Take clarity. The authoritative leader is a visionary; he motivates people by making clear to them how their work fits into a larger vision for the organization. People who work for such leaders understand that what they do matters and why. By framing the individual tasks within a grand vision, the authoritative leader defines standards that revolve around that vision.”
It is not a leader’s job to ensure that his or her choices and directives please everyone or make him or her popular. And it is not, as we have seen in many high-profile cases of late, his or her job to make excuses in the face of failures or criticism. It is not his or her job to seek out scapegoats when things don’t go to plan or to sanction a continuous rotation of senior positions, as the last man in becomes the new savior.
What he or she must do is to be authentically clear and consistent in communicating the direction they are taking the company, and to explain to the entire team why that needs to happen and how they will get there. Anything less is simply not rock ‘n’ roll.
Peter Smith is president of Vibhor, a public speaker and author of “Sell Something” and “Hiring Squirrels.” He spent 30 years building sales teams in retail and wholesale and he can be contacted at dublinsmith@yahoo.com, peter@vibhorgems.com, or on LinkedIn, Facebook or Twitter.
The Latest

The reimagined jewel, our Piece of the Week, trades the diamonds in the original 1998 design for blue, pink, yellow, and green sapphires.

Sponsored by American Gem Trade Association

Retailers are seeking new ways to attract customers, increase traffic, and create revenue – Estate buying events are a popular solution.

In the United States, second-quarter sales were flat amid soft consumer sentiment and lower in-store traffic.


The 22-karat gold egg, sold at Batemans Auctioneers in the U.K., was part of a 1980s treasure hunt ad campaign for Cadbury Creme Eggs.

Lucara Diamond Corp., which recovered the “Motswedi” diamond from the Karowe mine, sold the stone for an undisclosed amount.

Colored gemstones, artisan finishes, mixed metals, and meaningful details are shaping demand in bridal jewelry.

The expanded collections now feature hand-cut gemstones like topaz, tanzanite, chrysoprase, chalcedony, smoky quartz, and fire opal.

The lab-grown diamond jewelry brand’s newest boutique is in Westfield Valley Fair in Santa Clara, California.

The gemstone supplier and manufacturer acquired the remarkable 104-gram Zambian emerald at Gemfields’ auction in May.

Two suspects offered to trade the woman a “winning” lottery ticket for her jewelry.

Finsch has been in business rescue since May, and owner Petra Diamonds said it sees no viable path forward for the mine.

Michel Patrick DeSalles was sentenced after pleading guilty to the 2017 murder of Omid Gholian, who owned a jewelry store in Manhattan.

Longtime industry executive Beth Miller has taken on the role.

The brooch was owned by Virginia Fortune Ryan Ogilvy, who served as a lady of the bedchamber to Queen Elizabeth II for nearly 50 years.

Jamie Cygielman will take on the role on Aug. 24.

Duvall O’Steen and Jen Cullen Williams share the best ways to display, present, and explain colored gemstones to younger customers.

The mid-year conference for jewelry and watch appraisers will take place Sept. 5-6 on Zoom.

Honest Hands Ring Co. Founder Benjamin Bosworth shared his thoughts on jewelry technology and why AI can never replace the human element.

QVC Group President and CEO David Rawlinson is temporarily being replaced by a familiar face, former QVC CEO Mike George.

The brand also added two one-of-a-kind brown diamond pieces to the “Sanssouci” series of its “Gardens” collection.

Ostbye took home top vendor honors at the Independent Jewelers Organization’s show, held last month in Kentucky.

Sponsored by Stratus Estate Buyers

Cloud, who will officially join Blue Nile on Monday, spent 26 years at Tiffany & Co. and founded jewelry brand Roseate.

Garcia will take over from the company’s current CFO, Anders Boyer, who is retiring at the end of November.

Etsy CEO Kruti Patel Goyal explained why the company is letting go more than 200 employees as its performance improves.





















